It isn’t hard to be romantic, though I think some people take it the wrong way.

Being romantic doesn’t mean, expensive wine, flowers, or even trying to get the whole cast of Disney to help you propose to someone. Though getting the whole cast of Disney for a proposal is actually impressive, it doesn’t mean that you’re “romantic” just because of that gesture.

The key factor in being romantic is that you have to “understand” your partner. There are a lot of gimmicks out there on “how to be romantic”. C’mon, we’ve all seen the slow jam cd’s to get your partner in the mood and the famous “romantic” restaurant to take your date on. But what if your partner is into Star Treck conventions or rock concerts?

So you see, even if roses look nicer than tulips but she would rather have tulips, then buy her tulips! Duh! This is why understanding your partner and noticing their “likes” is a key factor in being romantic. And once you find it, you can work on it from there. =)

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