Don’t be shy about letting your partner know what you want and how you want it. One of the best ways to ensure a passionate and lasting sex life is to establish a habit of giving and accepting verbal feedback.
Be careful. Sexual technique is a sensitive subject for a lot of people. Make sure when you talk to your partner about this, they don’t have misconceptions. Most likely they’ll think that they’re doing something wrong and is not pleasing you sexually.
Remember, YOU are the expert at knowing exactly what makes you feel good. A good partner will not take it personally, but will take your teachings to heart. So share with them your “secrets” on what gets you off. Trust me, you’ll always be satisfied.