Ok so, let’s a minute to talk about “love”, “crushes”, or just plain “liking” someone.

I don’t know about you, but when I start feeling (not literally) for someone. I let them know. Maybe I’m too forward? Who knows, but just to be clear and upfront with the other person, I would like them to know how and what I feel for them. Regardless if the other person is feeling the same way or not. I’ve always been this way since high school! I used to go up to a guy I had a crush on, tell them, “Hey, I think you’re cute and I like you a lot, I’m just letting you know.” And I usually just walk away or smile and talk about something else. At this point, the other person feels, “dumbfounded”. In their head, they’re thinking, “What the F’ck jus’ happened??!”. It gets them everytime!! Hahaha.

Anywho, you know what they say, “If you like someone, let them know. Chances are they’re feeling the same way you do.” You never know, you can get hit by a mack truck the next day (knock on wood), but at least you told the person who’s been on your mind every second, of every day what you feel for them. And THAT will give you peace of mind.

So let someone know what you’re feeling for them, even if the feeling is not mutual. Who will it hurt? No one, unless you have an understanding that, that person might not feel the same. It’s ok. They’ll respect you more knowing that you aren’t playing any guessing games.

I don’t like games, so don’t expect me to play them. BUT, be upfront with me. HOW do you feel about me?

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